Is it OK to have one night stands? Why not! We are no longer in the 1900’s & you are single and loving it.
Men have it all the time…. Why the double standards?
I’m not saying become a slut or sleep with everyman you see … I am just saying ladies got needs too..
3 Tips:
- BE Honest: Let it be very clear that all you in for is SEX, no strings attached. It’s not only important to be honest with the other person, but be honest to yourself. AR you sure Sex is all you want? If yes, then go ahead have fun and enjoy. IF you’re looking for LOVE, please do not involve yourself with this.
- KNOW the Difference: There is a big difference between emotional connection and physical attraction. As a strong woman, you should know how to differentiate. If you really like the guy, casual sex will only ruin your chance of being together. (Remember previous post: Men like chasing)
- ONE time only: If you decide a one night stand is what you want. Make sure it’s a one night only. Men now days are pretty smart; they will call and “Try” to pursue only to get a second “Hit”. Don’t let it happen, this will confuse you. Remember you only need to satisfy your needs, not his.
Advice to all reading this post: People Open you minds, don’t be judgmental. WE all got needs.
Ladies, BE Smart when making these moves.
FYI: LOVE does not begin with SEX.
What if the sex is amazing ... can a one night stand turn into a great booty call???
ReplyDeleteHi Kate,
ReplyDeleteUnderstanding, what booty call entails .. with a mutual understanding . then yes. As a mature adult . I believe it can.
If the sex was amazing , and that's all you want out of it . Then why not.
If your looking for love , but you already had the'one night stand' I suggest you try to spend some quality time together(not just Sex) .. like go workout together, go to the park for a picnic or something were you can bond.
Always having an understanding that both parties want this.
Love Always,
Love or Lust
I like the no strings attached. Why because 60% of men don't like drama like what all know most of the time whe u have sex w a girl and next day u go to a diff direction drama starts like u r fake you played me...etc I like the idea up front go out have fun nd tell him/her we just gonna have a gd time no strings attached don't get love feelings involved. Love will come but not on the first day .(:-) Sam sa
DeleteSam,
ReplyDeleteIt's all about out how you pursue the situation. If your not honest with the girl , and you tell her what she wants to hear to sleep with her, then yes she will feel played. the key here is what you say and how you say it with honesty.
Love Always,
Love or Lust
I agree with ya it's all about trust and honesty.
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