Aug 12, 2012

How to become his dream girl!!


How to become his dream girl, without him noticing

Becoming the dream girl to man you have an eye on, it’s not an easy task.

It takes a real lady to achieve this and I will share some tips on how to make this possible.

Tips:

1.       Take pride on yourself:

Let it be known you are important. Keep your head up, and your heels high. A mistake many women do is, we become available to easily to man. If you “really” Like a man, don’t show him this, it only looks desperate.

Remember: You are number one therefore act like it.

a.       Have a sense of humor, laugh and smile often.

b.      If he gives you a compliment, simply thank him. Don’t talk about it.

c.       Maintain you independence.

d.      Have dignity, this is your best allay.

2.       Don’t be the “nice” girl:

This is a major No. being the nice girl many times entails thinking too much about “what would he think if I” type of situation. Ladies, Stop. Once you got an eye on him and you know his got an eye on you, it really doesn’t matter what he thinks as long as you maintain your posture and remember you are a lady. And, most importantly keep a smile on at all times.

a.       If he calls you, don’t pick up on the first ring. It only shows you have no life and you have been with phone in your hand waiting for his call.

b.      Do not chase him. Do not call him. He will wonder, he WILL call. It’s an animal instinct for man to pursue a woman.

c.       If you have sex on the first date. It’s a one night stand. Do not call him the next day, you lost your chances. Move on.

 If he calls you, please ignore. Usually, these types of relationships do not become relationships and they end quickly.

3.       Do not change, keep yourself as you are. Have personality.

Many times we become someone we are not because certain comments we receive by a man. Ladies, don’t change who you are for anyone one.

a.       If he tells you: “I don’t like Red lipstick”, do not stop wearing it. If red lipstick makes you happy why stop. Same goes with hair color, Miniskirts or low cuts shirts.

b.      Don’t be afraid of giving your opinions. If you don’t like where he took you to eat, tell him. 

Example:

I really love spending time with you. And I love the fact that we are together, but Next time we should try a different restaurant.

                                        Do not say it like this:

You couldn’t take me somewhere else?   .. This gives too much attitude and attitude is not SEXY.

c.       Make sure he is aware you got things to do. Do not make it all about him.

Most man would agree that they want a lady that had a nice attitude, great personality, positive energy and a mind of her own to call her "my Wife". Therefore ladies, keep in mind these tips and you will become the dream girl you want to be.

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